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Attention everyday disciples of Jesus: We want to serve the body of Christ through a no-cost coaching and training designed to help you start an emotionally healthy Christian community…

Create an emotionally healthy culture in a short amount of time, without information overwhelm.

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This is the complete content with a proven coaching pathway we use to train others to create an emotionally healthy community culture! Meet Mike who has completed the training and what he has experienced since.

Below are the exact protocols we implement, and help others with to experience emotionally healthy Christian community.

Step One: UNDERSTAND BIG SIX BOTTLENECKS

Your first step is to identify how our God-given, six baseline negative emotions given to each person at birth that are to be understood, embraced, and leveraged for love.

Left ignored or unchecked, these bottlenecks are going to keep your communities stuck for years. Learning how to act like oneself in the midst of these emotions, while helping others to do likewise, requires relational skill.

Step One: UNDERSTAND BIG SIX BOTTLENECKS

Your first step is to identify how our God-given, six baseline negative emotions given to each person at birth that are to be understood, embraced, and leveraged for love.

Step Two: COMPLETE THE BIG SIX SIMPLE AUDIT

This simple evaluation helps community members begin to identify areas of strengths and weaknesses in the areas of negative emotions.

God strategically has such a way that brings small, extended spiritual families pairing together dynamically all kinds of strengths and weaknesses with one another leading to tremendous character development and flourishing,
INCLUDING personal emotional health.

Step Two: COMPLETE THE BIG SIX SIMPLE AUDIT

This simple evaluation helps community members begin to identify areas of strengths and weaknesses in the areas of negative emotions.

Step 3 Three: UTILIZE S.A.L.V.E. RELATIONAL DISCIPLESHIP SKILLS TO REMOVE EMOTIONAL TOXICITY

In order to fill in the gaps throughout the stages of life that years later can drastically hinder emotional health, S.A.L.V.E relational discipleship skills (Shalom, Appreciation, Listen to Your Body, Validation, Emotional Maturity) is a minimum viable training pathway to emotional wholeness and maturity.

Gently and simply, this framework is able to not only help eliminate emotional toxicity, but also lead others into a discipleship experience to thrive and flourish in many other aspects of Kingdom life.

Step Three: UTILIZE S.A.L.V.E. RELATIONAL DISCIPLESHIP SKILLS TO REMOVE EMOTIONAL TOXICITY

Step Four: CONVERT TOXIC SHAME INTO HEALTHY HESED TRANSFORMATION

The MOST difficult, misunderstood and avoided negative emotion
in all of creation is unprocessed shame. Left unaddressed, toxic shame is the most destructive force for individuals, communities, leaders, ministries and Churches.

When processed in an emotionally healthy, hesed bonded family way, this process has the capability
of bringing the most powerful of transformations for individuals and communities.

Step Four: CONVERT TOXIC SHAME INTO HEALTHY HESED TRANSFORMATION

The MOST difficult, misunderstood and avoided negative emotion in all of creation is unprocessed shame. Left unaddressed, toxic shame is the most destructive force for individuals, communities, leaders, ministries and Churches.

When processed in an emotionally healthy, hesed bonded family way, this process has the capability
of bringing the most powerful of transformations for individuals and communities.

Step Five: PRAY FOR PEOPLE OF PEACE TO BE IDENTIFIED TO DISCIPLE

“But whatever house you enter, first say, ‘Peace to this house.’ And if a son of peace is there, your peace will rest on it; if not, it will return to you. And remain in the same house, eating and drinking such things as they give, for the laborer is worthy of his wages. Do not go from house to house.” (Luke 10:5-7)

Holy Spirit longs to make the process of finding and making disciples very simple through
asking and recognizing “People of Peace” situations.

Step Five: PRAY FOR PEOPLE OF PEACE TO BE IDENTIFIED TO DISCIPLE

Holy Spirit longs to make the process of finding and making disciples very simple through asking and recognizing “People of Peace” situations.

Step Six: INVITE 2-3 OTHERS INTO YOUR LIFE FOR THE PURPOSE OF SERVING THEIR STORY

“Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” (John 15:13)

The goal is discipleship expressed through hesed love in the context of healthy extended spiritual family
and the mission is serving THEIR story.

Step Six: INVITE 2-3 OTHERS INTO YOUR LIFE FOR THE PURPOSE OF SERVING THEIR STORY

“Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” (John 15:13)

The goal is discipleship expressed through hesed love in the context of healthy extended spiritual family and the mission is serving THEIR story.

Step Seven: CREATE A WEEKLY GATHERING OF 3-5 PEOPLE TO DO LIFE TOGETHER ORGANICALLY

Finding others to invite into your life to serve in a very small way by spending time together each week whom have similar interests where you live, work, learn and play anyone can do, much like a child making friends.

Starting with a simple, committed weekly rhythm on a patio or a living room to story together is all the spark that is needed create an emotionally healthy community!.

Step Seven: CREATE A WEEKLY GATHERING OF 3-5 PEOPLE TO DO LIFE TOGETHER ORGANICALLY

Starting with a simple, committed weekly rhythm on a patio or a living room to story together is all the spark that is needed create an emotionally healthy community!.

MEET YOUR TRAINER

Chris has spent over two decades absolutely captivated on how to experience emotionally healthy Christian community with disciple-making multiplication that is both simple and accessible to everyday disciples of Jesus!

Just like you, he started off with all of the content, books, courses in a box, expensive live trainings, conferences, prayer lines…. which only added to his confusion and overwhelm.

There was no complete “Point A to Point B” path to follow for creating and experiencing ongoing, sustainable, and healthy Christian community. Having a simplified model to help others build secure attachments using relational skills that leads to life-giving, discipleship multiplication is critical – so he, in very close collaboration with his team and many others, created a learning community experience to help God's people.

Today, after years of testing and refining, and seeing multiple emotionally healthy communities and disciple-makers created, they continue to optimize this training into an easy-to-follow pathway for those with the willingness and commitment to partner with Jesus and a few friends to forge this reality.

Therefore, Creating Emotionally Healthy Community is their most updated training yet!

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“THIS LOOKS GREAT, BUT IS IT REALLY

POSSIBLE FOR ME TO CO-CREATE WITH
JESUS AN EMOTIONALLY HEALTHY
COMMUNITY CULTURE IN JUST A FEW MONTHS?"

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relational skills, from identifying to inviting people of peace,
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TESTIMONIALS

What Others Are Saying About Hesed
Discipleship

"3 to 5 space groups have been a life changing experience. The group challenged me to get past my legalistic and judgmental mindsets to view people as God's creation. I have learned to look past the outward appearance and focus on the heart. The men in my group have been spiritual mentors and family. I have developed life-long friendships and bonds that will not easily be broken. These friends have encouraged me in my spiritual walk. In just 9 months, my relationship with God has sky-rocketed. I am hearing from Him more frequently and in new ways. These groups model the example Jesus left us. Putting relationship first. Loving and encouraging one another. Living life together. I highly recommend being part of these groups. You will never regret the decision."

Ryan Miller

Senior Accountant/CPA, Community America Credit Union

"When I met Chris, I was lost. Floundering marriage, addicted to alcohol and porn, and felt alone and ashamed. I never had a strong positive male role model and had experienced sexual, mental and physical trauma at the hands of the men that I thought I could trust. It was a dark place I was in. Then, I got a hand up. Chris introduced me to a great group of men that were walking with God and having their own struggles and successes. I stepped out in faith and desperation and invited them into my dark world. They were accepting and some shared similar situations in their lives. I wasn't alone anymore and I had friends who accepted me broken and all. By the grace of God, a lot of soul work and the fellowship and support of these 4 men, things began to change. I am proud to say I have overcome my addictions for a year now and am a spirit filled man of God. My marriage has never been better. My wife and counselor see amazing transformation in me. I am thankful beyond words to be where I am spiritually, emotionally, and I owe a lot of it to my band of brothers."

Aaron Mitcham

Commercial Sales Specialist/B2B Sales Division, JC Penney's

"When I first started attending the group, I was in a place of pain, anger, and disappointment that was mixed with disillusionment towards the church, its people, and God himself. This group has become a lifeline that has brought joy into my life. It has promoted a culture of finding the things that bring gratitude and peace. Building on this principle has allowed me to work through my pain and disappointments all the while being with men who listen and care about my story and heart. This group has greatly influenced me and is now something that I must have in my walk with Christ. Through our meeting and connections formed, I find it incredible that every time we get together there is much wisdom and truth shared. I go home from our time knowing that I have experienced Jesus and the power of God through these men that I now call brothers. I am a better man, husband, father, friend, and believer because of our group."